I have been listening a little more closely recently to radio interviews with people from all walks of life, talking about all kinds of things. Some important, some essentially drivel.
Seems to me the majority have a few things in common –
- The use of the word “so” to start a statement;
- The use of the phrase “yeah, no” as the person being interviewed thinks about their answer;
- There are a lot of people who just like to hear the sound of their own voices;
- People will spout off about just about anything, even if they clearly have no idea what they are talking about;
- People don’t care what effect their suggestions will have on other people, so long as it is implemented to their own benefit;
- If there is a big, long, or obscure word that can be used instead of a nice short word, guess which one will be used.
I have also noticed that some people talk very very very fast.
Many people do not enunciate – leaving many letters unuttered – especially d’s, t’s, n’s and ng’s (as in “comin’ up next”).
This may be anecdotal, but it seems like the less someone knows about something, the more they tend to say about it, and the faster they tend to talk.
Sometimes, being deliberate about your speech is a good idea.
Of course, there will be people who will immediately comment that I should consider the same about my writing.
For those people, I would refer you back to the first post in this blog – the Welcome In post — if you don’t like what you are reading, don’t read it.